The One We Stay For
 We meet many people in our lifetime. Some arrive like lessons . Some arrive like warnings. Some arrive like storms — loud and unforgettable. But then there’s the one  who arrives like a home. No noise. No drama. Just comfort. The one who stays when we are quiet, uncertain, imperfect and raw. But unfortunately these ones are often taken for granted and disrespected While we chase the exciting ones… and overlook the one who would actually stay. Then we go ahead to the media and cry to our friends and support groups  that women/men are wicked 😭,when we chose chaos over peace and excitement over calm And we continue to reap the reward of our own inability to identify what we need and after we're dissatisfied and disappointed in an unfulfilled union.....  We then go ahead to create and fuel gender wars  , turning one gender against the other and tagging them the source of our problems,when we're supposed to be looking within and being honest with ourselves about we really ne...